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A Note On Pegging

Have you ever had the thought, even fleeting, of Pegging? What it would be like to completely submit yourself to a woman? One such person contacted me a few months ago, and asked me if this is something I offered. I was honest, as I like to be, and said I didn’t offer it but would try.

My First Experience

He was right. Looking back, my emails were certainly less than enthusiastic in this regard. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to try something new, or that I found ‘Pegging’ abhorrent. Not at all, I was just utterly terrified I would disappoint him.

I spend a long time considering my brand, my marketing, my services all with one person in mind – the client. What would he/she/they want? How can I help them? What services are the excited to try? I want to ensure that no matter what is on the menu, its served with a confident smile.

He twisted my arm however and with a little guidance from a mentor , I agreed, worried I would get it wrong. He was kind, and we learnt together!

What Is Pegging Though?

Pegging is the act of penetrating the anus with a dildo or strap on, for the purpose of sexual gratification and power play. This is usually carried out by a women on a heterosexual man and as such isn’t a display of homosexuality but more intrigue into the unknown ‘forbidden’ play and submission. Of course with the sexual landscapes changing as they are, any people can enact this play, labels being totally unnecessary. Now at least I can say I am experienced in the art of ‘Pegging’ from the point of view as a female provider giving to a heterosexual man.

Do You Enjoy It?

I was surprised how much I enjoyed it the first time after all my worrying! Walking around the hotel room , nude with my strap-on, I discovered new plains of power, I liked my plastic cock and I was very sad to take it off! It was also lovely because the gentleman I was with couldn’t have been kinder too me. I hope he books again soon. Thanks for introducing me and taking my Pegging virginity too!

I have been fortunate enough to experience the sensation and trust with another few clients many times now, including in a BDSM setting and is something I would gladly do again.

Could I Try It?

Absolutely! When both partners have established trust, we can go slow, taking it moment by moment , exploring all the new sensations at a pace that suits you. I have a few different sizes and would always recommend starting with the small one first, although the sensation is different to a finger. We need to be in the mood, relaxed and ready for the submission to commence and with me, don’t be too worried.

If you don’t enjoy it, we can stop at anytime and go back to other methods of play. Sometimes the first experience is weird, odd or you might not know how you feel about it. Trust and comfort with your partner / provider is the most important factor when exploring things together.

Want to give me an email to talk more or perhaps you have a different fantasy.